Posted on July 10, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
I feel as though I am unattractive, a crap lay and not good enough for him.
I feel as though I am not the person he’s looking for and that I can never live up to his fantasies.
I feel like I have been used as something he thinks he wants but in reality he doesn’t.
I am angry that [...]
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Posted on July 10, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Bob grew up in a non-traditional home. His Mother and Father were alcoholics and they worked nights. On the weekends they were drunk and ran errands and never had time for Bob or his 2 siblings.
A typical day for Bob would be…
Getting dressed for school (his Parents would leave food and clean clothes for him), [...]
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Posted on July 10, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Well, Bob has admitted to:
being addicted to masterbation
being addicted to cybersex
being addicted to pornography
having one physical affair and looking for others
Bob and I met in the relationship section of Lavalife. He says that he started the cybersex after he met me because it was a world unknown to him (he had been faithfully married for [...]
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Posted on July 10, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Be careful what you wish for…
I went to couples counselling because Bob lied about:
going to Hooters (i found the receipt)
buying porn (nothing illegal or hard core)
and something else inconsequential
I was tired of his lies and I was tired of snooping – thinking I was crazy and I wanted to get to the bottom of all [...]
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