Posted on July 18, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Recap: Bob, my BF for the past 2 years, is a sex addict. I (we) found out 6ish weeks ago and I am messed-up. He lived a completely double life. He is addicted to masterbation, really soft porn, cybersex, had at least one physical affair and he’s a liar.
Ok, so here’s the thing (my conjecture)…
Bob [...]
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Posted on July 18, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Lisa. In her 30s. Married. 2 kids.
Meets a man in the intimate section of lavalife, meets in person for an hour and has sex with him in cheap hotel rooms (drives across the border to do it).
He could have been a rapist, murderer, 12 years old…you get the picture. She still put herself in that [...]
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Posted on July 18, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Bob’s addiction started with masterbation making him feel “good” and zoned out of his feelings and the things around him from a young age. He’s always done this and thought he was normal, but also thought it was dirty and he states, “it’s private” – in his world private = dirty.
When his marriage failed he [...]
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Posted on July 18, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Ok, I’m starting to feel a little calmer, more logical and certainly less crazy. A bit, but not much.
I can’t get the thoughts of my boyfriend alone in the dark masterbating away for hours, days, months, years…to porn. I can’t stop thinking about his physical affair and that after I found the text messages from [...]
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