My Friends Know About His Sex Addiction…their thoughts

I have a great group of close friends…they are cool, fun and we all genuinely care about each other and we talk about everything and I mean everything. A couple are married, some in long-term relationships and some single. I feel very grateful for them.
As soon as I found out about [...]

Why do I want to know every detail of the affair?

I’ll tell you why I need to know every detail of your sex addiction and I’ll tell you why you won’t fully disclose everything…

I need every detail to check inconsistancies in your story – that’s why I ask the same questions over and over and in different ways.  Afterall, I have found out more this [...]

Great post by wife of a pornography addict…

While trying to find others who are going through this I came across a great post written by a woman who has been married for four years.  While there is a bit of religion in the post you can see the anger, the hurt and feeling out of control for her husband’s pornography addiction.  It’s [...]

My sex life with a sex addict…

To recap, about 7 weeks ago I found out my boyfriend of nearly 2 years is a sex addict. He had an affair that lasted 3/4 of our relationship where he’d drive to meet a woman in a hotel room once a month for sex, was addicted to cybersex and admits he doesn’t know how many people [...]

The trust is gone completely with my sex addict boyfriend…

“Bob” and I went to counselling last night. We both thought it was a good session. After the session,  for the first time in 7ish weeks we didn’t talk about his addiction or our relationship.  We just took the dog for a walk and laughed, etc.
It felt good.  It felt like the man I knew and loved.  [...]