Well, when I first told him I was going to go and tell Lisa’s husband he was miffed.
He said why would I want to try to involve other people in this mess? I said, I’d have liked Lisa’s husband to show up at my door, if he had evidence, dates, photos, etc. and tell me. Bob said he was the one who chose to walk through the door, have the affair and meet her every month that it wasn’t “her” he was meeting but the situation. He got off because of the excitement of the cloak and dagger – but he said the reality when he was in the room left a lot to be desired and wasn’t what he fantasied about (he has also admitted to almost puking on the way home after their sessions and telling himself he was never going to do it again. Only to do it again and again).
When I did speak to her on Sunday he was agitated all day. Wanted to know what I told her and said it was stupid to talk to her becasue now I’ve threatened her way of life and she could retaliate. She knows the city he lives in adn where he works, etc.
He said he couldn’t give two sh**ts about her and what she thought about him and his lies.
Then I thought what if she contacts him…I would to try and get me to back off.
He apparently has deleted all of his skype accounts and ways they usually contacted each other except his phone number. He promised if she’d call or text that he wouldn’t respond. That she meant nothing to him, she wasn’t what he thought she would be and called her pathetic. he also promised to let me know if she did contact him.
There could only be three reasons for him to speak with her:
- to get their stories straight
- to warn her that I’m serious about telling everone
- to hook up again
Reality is that whatever she would tell me I wouldn’t believe. They may have already got their stories straight or she would blame it all on Bob to ensure I wouldn’t tell anyone. Or manipulate me somehow.
She’s obviously had the plan to say it’s not her phone and I’m sure she has all kinds of excuses, etc. but pictures tell a thousand words.
Yeah I’m angry. But her husband has a right to know what his wife is up to and the people she works with have a right to know their BFs and husbands may be at risk and her family need to know what they’ve created.
How many more people is she going to hurt?
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