Posted on July 24, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Bob genuinely thought that because he used condoms for both oral sex (flavored – I found them) and regular intercourse that he (and I) were protected 100% from STDs. Says he must have slept through sex-ed growing up.
So here’s some info for spouses and our sex addicted partners about condoms that i copied and pasted from here:
Safer sex [...]
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Posted on July 24, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
These are some of things listed by Patrick Carnes in his book, Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict. While all sex addicts may not present all of these characteristics there is a unifying factor and they may present one or more than one of these characteristics. I’ve paraphrased…
have a ritual with which they act [...]
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Posted on July 24, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
While it is true there can be some sex addicts that use illegal activities as a means. It is also true that there are sex addicts who only act out in cybersex chat rooms, masterbate, look at porn.
Not everyone goes to hookers, rub and tugs (massage parlours), does the illegal activities written above.
Many people with [...]
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Posted on July 24, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Wish I wasn’t writing this blog. Wish none of this sex addiction stuff ever happened. Wish…wish…wish…
I’m doing better. The shock is over and now I need to decide what to do. I know none of the pornography, masterbation, cybersex and affairs had anything to do with me. I do know that I am scared for [...]
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Posted on July 24, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Thanks so much for reading my blog.
I noticed that “related blogs or posts” are included when you click on my blog. I would like to say they are randomly generated from keywords (tags) from this page.
I apologize if some not so savory messages get through. There is virtually nothing I can do about it.
I am [...]
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