Posted on July 28, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
I’ve had this blog for about a month now and I’m getting over 120 hits a day on average. I’m shocked that I’m getting that many hits already. My blog isn’t fully indexed yet nor picked up by all of the major search engines.
Anyway, looking at my stats for this blog the biggest clicked on [...]
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Posted on July 28, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
All the research I’ve read states clearly that if someone wants to recover from sex addiction that they must do a period of celibacy with self, their partner and their obvious addictions.
Most research states 12 weeks, the SLAA meeting my BF went to says at least 30 days.
I think it’s a good thing to do [...]
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Posted on July 28, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
I know he went he had his one day token to prove it.
I’m proud of him for walking through the door. It must be hard. You don’t know if you’re going to see people you know, you really don’t know what you’re walking into and mostly if you walk through that door on some level you’ve [...]
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Posted on July 28, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Bob admitted yesterday that it was the lead-up (ritual) to meeting Lisa that was exciting and he was always disappointed physically meeting Lisa because she and they never lived up to his fantasy.
He said they’d cybersex and talk about what they were going to do to each other and the fantasy would overwhelm him until [...]
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Posted on July 28, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
My BF is a sex addict. It’s going on it’s 8th week since we figured this out. He’s addicted to porn, masterbation, cybersex and he’s had an affair with likely another sex addict.
I had a dream about a family member of my BF’s – who I’ve never spoken to, but only met twice. I didn’t [...]
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