Posted on July 29, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Yesterday I wore something that is one of Bob’s triggers for his sex addiction. He walked in the door, saw me and seemed agitated, preoccupied with sex and couldn’t really concentrate.
I wore it on purpose. I wanted sex and I wanted to be with my BF.
We hadn’t had sex for 3 days and it’s been 8-ish [...]
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Posted on July 29, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Patrick Carnes describes the differences in his book Contrary to Love. Here’s a paraphrase:
48% of men and 43% of women reported having affairs while married. Some may be temporarily promiscuous with a number of persons most of these people are able to make sense out of what happened and move on.
An addict doesn’t recover from [...]
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Posted on July 29, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex
Bob is going to stay at a hotel tonight without me. We’re both nervous about tonight.
He has to go for work. I am currently off work so I could go too, but I know I cannot police him. If there’s a will there’s a way. Hotel rooms are a trigger for Bob. He used to [...]
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