White knuckling? Recovery from sex addiction

After reading a great blog post http://betrayedbycybersex.wordpress.com/2008/07/30/interesting-post-from-recovering-sex-addict/ written by a recovering sex addict I have some thoughts that he pointed out.
White knuckling is a going cold turkey – you don’t the fix problem you just abstain from it so the thought processes are still there. 
While abstaining, in my opinion (I’m no expert), has to be part [...]

Interesting Post from recovering sex addict

I found a good post (link at bottom of this post) from a recovering sex addict and while I bypassed a lot of the religious stuff, it emphatically strikes a note with me – my boyfriend is also “the rock” he describes.  This article has a good coping strategy to try too.  It explains white knuckling [...]

I feel guilty now about masterbating and I’m not the sex addict

I feel guilty about masterbating.  Bob has now spent 8 weeks not masterbating and it’s very difficult for him.  He used to masterbate at least 3 times a day – he’s in his early 40s.
Is it right that I masterbate?  Am I taking some “sexytime” away from him?   I don’t hide it from Bob, never [...]

Traveling for work … the hotel ritual

Well here is a big Hoorah!!!
Bob went to a hotel for a night, for work and we were both worried about it.  In the past he had done a lot of masterbating, looking at porn on his computer (not movies), cybersexing and talking to random women he met during cybersex activities or on dating sites.  [...]

8 weeks after learning my BF is a sex addict…

Well, I’ve learned a lot in 8 weeks, more than I ever wanted to know, about sex addiction.  And yet, I still have so many unanswered questions.
I still haven’t made a decision as to what to do whether I shall stay of go.  A good friend of mine gave me some advice and said not [...]