7 weeks after learning my BF is a sex addict

Wish I wasn’t writing this blog.  Wish none of this sex addiction stuff ever happened.  Wish…wish…wish…
I’m doing better.  The shock is over and now I need to decide what to do.  I know none of the pornography, masterbation, cybersex and affairs had anything to do with me.  I do know that I am scared for [...]

Religion & Sex Addiction…

Why is God in the picture everywhere you see addiction stuff?  I am a Christian (afraid that I’m blaspheming here), but my BF isn’t and the 12 step programs are based on a higher power.  Well, that’s kind of  hard to get your head around starting a 12 step program without even knowing or believing [...]

No sex – what does that mean for a sex addict…

Yesterday my BF, who is a sex addict, came home and was agitated. He fell asleep on the couch after dinner and said he’s just really tired. He’s been home with me every night since we discovered his sex addiction 7 ish weeks ago and I’ve been talking incessantly about the affair, asking questions, trying [...]

My sex life with a sex addict…

To recap, about 7 weeks ago I found out my boyfriend of nearly 2 years is a sex addict. He had an affair that lasted 3/4 of our relationship where he’d drive to meet a woman in a hotel room once a month for sex, was addicted to cybersex and admits he doesn’t know how many people [...]

Great post by sex addict explaining love & addiction

I’ve spent a lot of time these weeks looking for and searching for answers, understanding…something to make me feel better, to make this ok.  To enforce the idea that the sex addiction has nothing to do with me, per se. 
I found an amazing post on a message board yesterday from a sex addict describing how [...]

My BF is a sex addict – here’s my background…

I’ve spent 2 years with a sex addict and didn’t know it.  I knew something was up.  Blamed it on my jealousy/trust issues, but reality is I just didn’t trust my intuition – thought I was crazy.
So me…
I’m 38, have had 3 five year relationships, never been married, no kids. 
I have an eating disorder which [...]

He loves me so he has sex with others…

Recap: Bob, my BF for the past 2 years, is a sex addict.  I (we) found out 6ish weeks ago and I am messed-up.  He lived a completely double life.  He is addicted to masterbation, really soft porn, cybersex, had at least one physical affair and he’s a liar.
Ok, so here’s the thing (my conjecture)…

Bob [...]

His Cybersex and sex addiction admission

Well, Bob has admitted to:

being addicted to masterbation
being addicted to cybersex
being addicted to pornography
having one physical affair and looking for others

Bob and I met in the relationship section of Lavalife.  He says that he started the cybersex after he met me because it was a world unknown to him (he had been faithfully married for [...]

My boyfriend is a cybersex addict

A month ago it all came out that my boyfriend is a sex addict. He’s addicted to cybersex, masterbation and he’s had an affair. That is the stuff he’s admitted to