7 weeks after learning my BF is a sex addict

Wish I wasn’t writing this blog.  Wish none of this sex addiction stuff ever happened.  Wish…wish…wish…
I’m doing better.  The shock is over and now I need to decide what to do.  I know none of the pornography, masterbation, cybersex and affairs had anything to do with me.  I do know that I am scared for [...]

No sex – what does that mean for a sex addict…

Yesterday my BF, who is a sex addict, came home and was agitated. He fell asleep on the couch after dinner and said he’s just really tired. He’s been home with me every night since we discovered his sex addiction 7 ish weeks ago and I’ve been talking incessantly about the affair, asking questions, trying [...]

Great post by wife of a pornography addict…

While trying to find others who are going through this I came across a great post written by a woman who has been married for four years.  While there is a bit of religion in the post you can see the anger, the hurt and feeling out of control for her husband’s pornography addiction.  It’s [...]

The trust is gone completely with my sex addict boyfriend…

“Bob” and I went to counselling last night. We both thought it was a good session. After the session,  for the first time in 7ish weeks we didn’t talk about his addiction or our relationship.  We just took the dog for a walk and laughed, etc.
It felt good.  It felt like the man I knew and loved.  [...]

Great post by sex addict explaining love & addiction

I’ve spent a lot of time these weeks looking for and searching for answers, understanding…something to make me feel better, to make this ok.  To enforce the idea that the sex addiction has nothing to do with me, per se. 
I found an amazing post on a message board yesterday from a sex addict describing how [...]

His Cybersex and sex addiction admission

Well, Bob has admitted to:

being addicted to masterbation
being addicted to cybersex
being addicted to pornography
having one physical affair and looking for others

Bob and I met in the relationship section of Lavalife.  He says that he started the cybersex after he met me because it was a world unknown to him (he had been faithfully married for [...]

My boyfriend is a cybersex addict

A month ago it all came out that my boyfriend is a sex addict. He’s addicted to cybersex, masterbation and he’s had an affair. That is the stuff he’s admitted to