One Year with Sex Addict

One year after sex addiction…

HPV, Sex Addiction, Celibacy, Babies & Me

Sorry, I’ve been off the map for awhile and thank you all for your emails and concern.  It’s nice to know that our virtual community is a close one.
So this past month has been weird.  We started going to RCA, which is good.  Either by chance or maybe it’s the meetings things have started to calm [...]

Why sex addict fantasies are ruined

Because the fantasy is always better than reality.
Most of us significant others can look back and see the change that happened in the beginning.  At first, our BFs were really into us sexually then…at some point (mine was about 5 months in) Bob started to really love me and then he stopped initiating sex and [...]

The sex was crap … admission from my sex addicted BF

Bob admitted yesterday that it was the lead-up (ritual) to meeting Lisa that was exciting and he was always disappointed physically meeting Lisa because she and they never lived up to his fantasy.
He said they’d cybersex and talk about what they were going to do to each other and the fantasy would overwhelm him until [...]

Did the uncle play a part in my BF’s sex addiction?

My BF is a sex addict.  It’s going on it’s 8th week since we figured this out.  He’s addicted to porn, masterbation, cybersex and he’s had an affair with likely another sex addict.
I had a dream about a family member of my BF’s – who I’ve never spoken to, but only met twice.  I didn’t [...]