Interview with Sex Addict about Masterbation Addiction

I’m going to preface this by saying that I’m the interviewer and Bob’s partner so there be conflicts of interest here.  Also, that Bob is in therapy trying to understand himself so answers may seem short likley because he doesn’t really know.  Here goes:
First masterbated?  around 10 and would masterbate about 3 or 4 times [...]

How can my sex addict love me, but sleep with others?

He can…he did…it hurts…a lot
There was an intersting insight last night as Bob said he never saw any other of the women as an equal.  he always thought he was better than them.  Didn’t mind thinking they were whores, but was charming enough outwardly (playing the game) to get them on board and cybersex or [...]

White knuckling? Recovery from sex addiction

After reading a great blog post http://betrayedbycybersex.wordpress.com/2008/07/30/interesting-post-from-recovering-sex-addict/ written by a recovering sex addict I have some thoughts that he pointed out.
White knuckling is a going cold turkey – you don’t the fix problem you just abstain from it so the thought processes are still there. 
While abstaining, in my opinion (I’m no expert), has to be part [...]

My boyfriend is a cybersex addict

A month ago it all came out that my boyfriend is a sex addict. He’s addicted to cybersex, masterbation and he’s had an affair. That is the stuff he’s admitted to