Couples counselling…and the day that devastated me

Be careful what you wish for…
I went to couples counselling because Bob lied about:

going to Hooters (i found the receipt)
buying porn (nothing illegal or hard core)
and something else inconsequential

I was tired of his lies and I was tired of snooping – thinking I was crazy and I wanted to get to the bottom of all [...]

The signs of addiction in the past two years…

So for the previous year and likely throughout the 2 years I had been playing private investigator. I knew something was up, but not sure what exactly. We argued and I brought up the text message stuff about every 3 or 4 weeks. The story would change slightly but not majorly. Guess I believed what i wanted to, but subconciously I knew there was something going on. I felt crazy and my stomach would turn. Sometimes I wouldn’t look for weeks because I was afraid of what I’d find.