Intellectualizing vs. Feeling – Partners of Sex Addicts

Posted on August 29, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex

A commenter on my blog says some pretty amazing things and the other day the blogger said,
“Really think about what it would feel like. Don’t intellectualize, don’t research, I think your research has actually clouded your judgement.”
I’d have to say they have a point.  While my PMS kicked into full gear the last few (angry) [...]

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My 2 year anniversary with a sex addict…

Posted on August 13, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex

As I was just telling a friend of mine…it’s mine and Bob’s 2 year anniversary coming up next week.  Normally I buy him pretty good gifts for occassions.  This year he’s getting nothing…nada…squat.  i reminded him last night that it will be two years and he says we’ll have to do something great.  I wonder [...]

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Traveling for work and sex addiction

Posted on July 29, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex

Bob is going to stay at a hotel tonight without me.  We’re both nervous about tonight. 
He has to go for work.  I am currently off work so I could go too, but I know I cannot police him.  If there’s a will there’s a way.  Hotel rooms are a trigger for Bob.  He used to [...]

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My BF is a sex addict – here’s my background…

Posted on July 19, 2008 by betrayedbycybersex

I’ve spent 2 years with a sex addict and didn’t know it.  I knew something was up.  Blamed it on my jealousy/trust issues, but reality is I just didn’t trust my intuition – thought I was crazy.
So me…
I’m 38, have had 3 five year relationships, never been married, no kids. 
I have an eating disorder which [...]

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