3 months since learning my BF is a sex addict

Well, it’s been around three months since Bob and I realized that he’s addicted to sex.  He hasn’t masterbated, cybersexed, had an affair (11 months) or looked at porn during this time.  He’s going to SLAA, seeing a therapist and I’m seeing a therapist.  We’re both planning to go to Recovering Couples Anon in the [...]

The Strength of a Female Sex Addict

I’ve been reading a friend’s blog for quite sometime now and I feel quite grateful for the nuggets of helpful information she posts on this blog.  She is a recovering sex addict whose life I cannot imagine living through. I’m proud of her for having the guts to put it out there to help others and [...]

Paranoia or Intuition: Feeling Sick Again & the Sex Addict

Here I am on a tropical island – I’m working from the hotel while “Bob” is at work – and now I feel sick and panicky and just overall icky.
Here’s the story… 10 steps forward and one step back….arggghhhhhhhh
Last night Bob set the alarm to get up at 6am to go to work.  However, there [...]

Interesting Post from recovering sex addict

I found a good post (link at bottom of this post) from a recovering sex addict and while I bypassed a lot of the religious stuff, it emphatically strikes a note with me – my boyfriend is also “the rock” he describes.  This article has a good coping strategy to try too.  It explains white knuckling [...]