The Sex Addict, Celibacy, Concerns, & Wet Dreams

Bob’s been celibate now for nearly a month (he’s doing 60 days).  I’m proud of him.  He’s talking more and seems more engaged in life.  He says he didn’t know it would be this hard.  He also can see more and more how addicted he really is.  He sees his thought patterns.
He started the celibacy [...]

White knuckling? Recovery from sex addiction

After reading a great blog post http://betrayedbycybersex.wordpress.com/2008/07/30/interesting-post-from-recovering-sex-addict/ written by a recovering sex addict I have some thoughts that he pointed out.
White knuckling is a going cold turkey – you don’t the fix problem you just abstain from it so the thought processes are still there. 
While abstaining, in my opinion (I’m no expert), has to be part [...]

My BF went to Sex & Love Addicts Anon…

I know he went he had his one day token to prove it.
I’m proud of him for walking through the door. It must be hard.  You don’t know if you’re going to see people you know, you really don’t know what you’re walking into and mostly if you walk through that door on some level you’ve [...]

Sex addiction is messing with my head…

Ok, I’m starting to feel a little calmer, more logical and certainly less crazy.  A bit, but not much.
I can’t get the thoughts of my boyfriend alone in the dark masterbating away for hours, days, months, years…to porn.  I can’t stop thinking about his physical affair and that after I found the text messages from [...]