Sex, Lies & Forgiveness – Couples speaking out on healing from addiction

So, I’m  re-reading the book by Jennifer Schneider & Burt Schneider and 5 months later I really find it a valuable tool to understanding.  The authors surveyed people and it is filled with examples, the way people feel on both sides.  There are some things that stick out for me…so I’ll excerpt them here. Both sides should [...]

Punished by His Celibacy?

So Bob’s into almost a month of celibacy.  Luckily we were both away, seperately, on business last week – but I have to tell you…I am gagging for it.  He decided to be celibate for 60-days (I thought he said 30) following our crap trip to the Caribbean, since I didn’t feel like doing it [...]

Celibacy & the sex addict…

All the research I’ve read states clearly that if someone wants to recover from sex addiction that they must do a period of celibacy with self, their partner and their obvious addictions.
Most research states 12 weeks, the SLAA meeting my BF went to says at least 30 days.
I think it’s a good thing to do [...]