5 Quick Things I’ve Proud of This Year (in terms of being with sex addict)

For the past few months, maybe longer, I have stopped looking at women jealously. There was a time where everywhere I looked, adn I mean everywhere, I only saw women who were better than me. They may be prettier, thinner, better eyelashes, funnier, smarter – whatever. I’m not gay, but I couldn’t stop looking at women. I objectified them. I’m done with that, like the headache that drove you nuts and then somehow, somewhere vanished.

Explaining love and sex addiction by a recovering sex addict

Another great blog worth a read.  Here’s part of a great post about love and sex addiction.  Here’s the link to My Sex Addiction: A Complicated Answer.

A Complicated Answer

MargauxMeade asked me a great question in her comment on my post Former Lovers, which has been my most-commented-on-drama-filled post to date. It also is probably the [...]

Condoms aren’t 100% safe in protecting you from STDs

Bob genuinely thought that because he used condoms for both oral sex (flavored – I found them) and regular intercourse that he (and I) were protected 100% from STDs.  Says he must have slept through sex-ed growing up.
So here’s some info for spouses and our sex addicted partners about condoms that i copied and pasted from here:
Safer sex [...]

Great post by sex addict explaining love & addiction

I’ve spent a lot of time these weeks looking for and searching for answers, understanding…something to make me feel better, to make this ok.  To enforce the idea that the sex addiction has nothing to do with me, per se. 
I found an amazing post on a message board yesterday from a sex addict describing how [...]